My cat Miles also I swear is OCD about the litterbox, he goes back in several times afterward to clean up...like it isn't clean enough for him and I think he's even cleaned up after the others sometimes.
BTW you are so lucky to have a lap cat. I have 3 cats, 2 of them were lap cats when we adopted them and they just stopped doing it. Everyday I wish they'd curl up on my lap but they just don't.
I have a cat that is generally aggressive and can lash out sometimes, it's just how she is (she's 12 years old). I've just learned how to deal with her and not let her get to me. If i get angry I just walk away. I've learned how to be with her, different than my other cats. I think you made a...
This happens to my husband and if I remember correctly it happened with our boy cat Pilot (RIP) and our boy Miles as well and he's always dumbounded. I think they only go when HE eats, not when I eat or rather he just notices and I don't.
I'm curious what else you think my cat is, our theory is he is part Siberian.
Cross-eyed blue eyes
Grey/beigy/white fur color
20 lbs but not overweight
Talks a LOT
Thick fur