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  1. ashleigh

    Please help me :-(

    Hi everyone, As some of you know we had to have our beautiful Indie put to sleep a couple of months ago. His bio sister became withdrawn and was solitary but she started to come around, then she started losing fur, I thought it was fleas again as Sid came to us riddled..so I did a second...
  2. ashleigh

    Is my Indies spirit here?

    Thank you both. Susan, I cannot begin to tell you the comfort I get to know my boy is here. My DH was so skeptical before he saw our ghost figure here (that's another story) so if he has now seen orbs he is also happy his buddy is here. Win, hydrox sounds beautiful and I'm glad he is with you...
  3. ashleigh

    Help! Minx is grieving

    Hi everyone, Its been a couple of weeks since Indie was put to sleep, and Minx (his sister) is still very quiet. She was always by my side and slept on my bed and now won't even come upstairs. Indie spent his last few days here downstairs which is where she sleeps now. Also as bonkers as it...
  4. ashleigh

    Is my Indies spirit here?

    Hi everyone, For those of you who don't know, we lost out precious furboy a couple of weeks ago...we picked his ashes up last week and since then some strange goings on have been happening. Firstly, Indie loved to go into my wardrobe and sleep, I swore I saw his little face peeping out and I...
  5. ashleigh

    Sleep tight Indie

    Thank you so much everyone, I haven't even been online I am so distraught, but we think we have some comfort but that will be in a post in the lounge, as this isn't the place for it, makes us smile anyway =)
  6. ashleigh

    Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome

    He has gone, I put a post in crossing the bridge. Just want to thank you all for your replies and for trying to help us x
  7. ashleigh

    Sleep tight Indie

    I am devastated to say that my baby boy left us this afternoon, it was cancer afterall. I came here in 2004 having never owned cats before with Indie and his sister, they were 3 wks old rescue kittens. With the help of the people on this site and the aid of powdered baby milk and syringes we...
  8. ashleigh

    Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome

    Thank you very much will check that out x
  9. ashleigh

    Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome

    Thank you so much and please excuse my ignorance, but do you mean raw meat?
  10. ashleigh

    Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome

    Sorry for the delay, my head has been all over the place. I took Indie back two days ago and he had lost weight. They said the best way would be bloods and scan and so he had them yesterday. The bloods came back neg for FIV and Leukemia and despite saying the scan was the best way to go we are...
  11. ashleigh

    Can my Freya get some vibes?

    Sending tonnes of love and prayers xxx
  12. ashleigh

    My new boy Sid

    Thank you, with one cat being so ill I am now wondering if Sid was sent to us as a blessing...as if Indie doesn't make it his sister has Sid to keep her on her toes.
  13. ashleigh

    Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome

    Thank you all. I did start doing this yesterday as he wasn't eating. Took him back today and he has lost weight and the lump ( she never said lump last week!) seems bigger. He us back in the morning for a scan. We have both said if it is something sinister we don't want him to go through all...
  14. ashleigh

    Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome

    Thank you. Today he has been awake most of the day and chilling in the window sill almost all day. This is a step up for him as he wouldn't leave his bed at all. Vets tomorrow so will know more then x
  15. ashleigh

    Previous owner trying to reclaim my cat??

    Sounds great! She doesn't care she just wants to try and show her authority, nothing but a big fat bully! I am so happy someone like you has given your cat the chance of a loving and secure home. I still cannot fathom how people can be so cruel (mine were hand reared from two weeks due to...
  16. ashleigh

    Question of the day: Saturday February 9

    Thank you! I didn't even think to look on youtube! Mike, I would love to see pics too. We moved and have a lovely big garden, but I have no idea on what to do, what goes with what.. I'd like something not too time consuming and that I don't have to pull up each year and re-plant ( I'm not green...
  17. ashleigh

    My new boy Sid

    Thanks Mani, I also love his smudge, and the fact is he a bat cat  he is a lap cat too and I love that, his sister has a heart shape on her back which is sweet. Funnily enough, Minx is the one who chases all cats from the garden but she was ok with him quite quickly. Indie who loves other cats...
  18. ashleigh

    VERY TOUGH DECISION SURGERY HELP PLEASE

    Hi there, I can only offer my own feelings but based on my old dog (before I owned cats). Shelby had a mouth growth and the vet suggested operating to remove it. We did that, because you want to give them a chance. It grew back, and so another op believing we were given her the best chance and...
  19. ashleigh

    Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome

    Many thanks for replying. He has had no tests yet. The vet wanted him on this bland food for a week ( he goes back on Tuesday) to see how he goes before anything. She didn't want to give him steroids as I had flea treated them thanks to the friends my kitten bought with him and I was sure he...
  20. ashleigh

    Previous owner trying to reclaim my cat??

    I don't think she wants the cat either, I think she doing it out of spite and probably gets a kick out of traumatising you. Take the cat to a shelter and say you got the cat through an ad page as the owner was moving/couldn't look after her, but you would like to get the cat chipped but want to...
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