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  1. jaymetal

    My cat died suddenly...

    Hello. I jus found your post. I am so sorry for your loss. It is one of the worst feeling s. Our pets are so much more to life than just a pet. They are our children. They love us unconditionally. They do not care what kind of car you drive they do not care what kind of home you live in, they do...
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    the dramatic yawn!

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    the dramatic yawn!

    THIS IS MY BOY TYLER....   NAP TIME ON THE TOP OF THE CABINETS..  
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  5. jaymetal

    Should I have kept their ashes??

    It's a highly personal situation.  When my boy died Aug. 16th, 2012,  i kept his ashes, and when my other boy, Joey, died in Sept. 2012, i kept his ashes as well. It helps me stay connected.  Either way, its your decision. Don't regret. 
  6. jaymetal

    First Time Cat Owner, I NEED HELP, MY CAT WONT STOP SELF MUTILATING

    Hey. I wanted to add one thing. This might have nothing to do with it or help at all, but i never read where you played with the cat at all. Something of a diversion that would help get this off the cats mind.  A wand with feathers. When you see them doing this undesirable trait, you could pick...
  7. jaymetal

    In memory of all the animals who've blessed my life

    That was very touching and I agree with what you had to say about our animals along the path of life. I gained the privilege along the winding roads, to meet up with some pretty special friends. Its so hard in the world we live in because of rules to own pets, when you live in certain areas. I...
  8. jaymetal

    Tigger.......... :(

    Well it at least shows we have a heart... When it breaks it lets us know we are alive and that we loved as powerfully as we could.  I know you miss ole Tigger.  It's normal to feel the loss even tho loss feels like the dickens ... Its hard to see that life will ever be normal again. But it will...
  9. Anniversary brings up the pain...

    Anniversary brings up the pain...

  10. jaymetal

    Anniversary brings up the pain...

    Oh I am so sorry to hear that. That's the worse kind of shock. When its so sudden and you have absolutely no time to say goodbye or any last words at all. That is a horrible pain to deal with im imagining.  That kind of shock did happen with my boy Joey who perished in the fire, but I was able...
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  15. jaymetal

    I need answers please ...

    Huh? That was you? About the Lysol? LOL .. Well I forgot who had said it, but that shows I pay attention.  It's true what they say about your first love... Chad was and will always be my most special cat of all. Not that I didn't love them all equally, its just Chad was my soul mate. My first . ...
  16. jaymetal

    I need answers please ...

    Thank you for your response. It means a lot !  The anniversary came and went for Joey and Sunday was harder on me than I thought it would be. Especially in the late evening hours. It hit me like bricks I think because it was around that exact time that things started to happen.  I went into...
  17. jaymetal

    Anniversary brings up the pain...

    http://www.our-happy-cat.com/chad-cat-memorial.html The above url will take you to a site where I have 3 pictures of my boy Chad.   Many thanks to all you wonderful pet parents that took the time to help me through a very difficult time with what was going on in my life and with the lives of...
  18. jaymetal

    I had to put my baby Moses to sleep last night. I need help

    OMG.. I am so so so so very sorry for your loss. I thought the tragedy that struck me a year ago was something, this just takes it to another level.  May I ask if you ever found out what did happen to him? Not that knowing would make it better, its just odd that he is fine one day and less than...
  19. jaymetal

    Anniversary brings up the pain...

    Thank you for your thoughts. It means a lot as this day marks one year... I will make it. Pain and all the ugly. We live. We deal. We cry and we feel. We move on and we love again. We risk loving because life would be dull without the love from a fur friend. Their love is forever.  Thanks again.
  20. jaymetal

    Anniversary brings up the pain...

    Hello... Thank you so much for your thoughtful response... Today marks the day since a year has passed and I lost Joey... I feel ok... Just a bit melancholy ...  A friend is showing up today and hanging out with me awhile..  Even thought the time spent with Joey was cut short, I am happy that I...
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