I have a little 'princess/ruler' too. She learned how to do it from her older sister!! I just try to keep them from getting too rough with each other... When I hear a scuffle, I keep my eyes and ears open for any signs of distress. My older one hisses when annoyed and my younger one...
I agree, do NOT spray your cat. They listen. All you have to do is to communicate to them with a lot of love, patience and time. Clap your hands, stomp your foot on the floor and say "NO" loudly. DOn't yell at them and don't scream their name. Any kind of non-threatening noise will do; no LOUD...
Yes, Imbri. When one of my cats is really grooving on being with me and the other comes along and butts in, the first one tries to swat the other away, too. They're so territorial! When one gets too bossy, I make them both get down so nobody is getting attention when there is friction. That...
Yes, cubes are fun! Mine have toys in them and the kitties have lots of fun in their cubes. I have to trade out the toys every once in a while. I put some away in a box and pull out other ones. The cats get bored but play again when they have a different one!
Yes, Feralvr. Those are not 'tents' those are 'cubes' to me! You make a tent with a light blanket or sheet. We have 2 sets of 2 cubes in our house. The cats have chewed the fabric in them; they got torn by their nails while playing. As with all fun things and cats, you have to put items away...
I'd definitely try to capture a urine sample and have it looked at by the vet's office, to be sure there is no infection or crystals in it. You can put a small plate in the tub where she goes with a little bit of litter on it. Maybe she'll pee there for you. You could also just try a paper...
Sorry to hear it's not that simple. My Buttercream was like that. I wanted another cat, but she wouldn't have it. Finally decided to get Penny at 6weeks old and kept her safe in another bedroom unless I was there. Had to train them how to get along. Penny is 3 now and has turned into the boss...