I apologize for being gone, I've been really sick :( I just wanted to followup in case someone else finds this thread and wants to know what happened :)
So we let Molly and Lila meet through the door several times over a few days and honestly, I just waited until Lila acted like she wanted to...
The article that I found talked about how badly injured and literally traumatized the female cat had become which kind of made me want to punch that owner in the face for letting it get to that point for that poor little (blind!) girl... at least they finally did something about it though I...
I'm really sorry for what you're dealing with :( I don't have much experience with situations like these but maybe it would be a good idea to separate them permanently and then slowly reintroduce each other since you've done so much moving, they might just be stressed and taking it out on each...
I would highly recommend not leaving them unattended as your adult cat could seriously injure your little one especially since it sounds like he's really hurting her :( I don't have much experience with kitten vs. cat relationships so hopefully someone else can be more helpful. Does your little...
I found this link for you... Just scroll down to the middle of the page, that's where the relevant info is :) http://www.petplace.com/cats/sexual-aggression-in-cats/page1.aspx
I can't exactly say that I condone the use of anti-depressants in animals as I think that most behavioural problems can...
Good idea with the nail clipping, hers are good but i haven't looked at his.
They've actually been out together all morning today after just doing some more through the door meetings yesterday and they seem to be getting along swimmingly :) You know, other than occasionally attacking each...
oh and thanks for the video -holy freakin' cuteness! There didn't seem to be any of that initial angry, territorial nervousness with my two my so that's good, I think :) The toys idea is a great idea, I should try that with them today since they both like to play so much and that might keep...
Thanks so much for the reassurance and info :) I know that the process can take FOREVER but Molly has been good with other cats and obviously these two new cats are too, so I'm pretty optimistic that there won't be forever hating, (if in fact there's hating at all now :-p) especially since...
Huge hugs for being caring and not just dumping her back at the shelter. So many people wouldn't "deal" with a new sick kitty and most certainly wouldn't foot such a large bill either, so thank you, she's a lucky kitten :) Have you let the shelter know what's going on with her? It might be a...
Hi, everyone, I'm new here so thank you for your time and I look forward to contributing mine as well :)
So, we adopted a sweet, shelter kitty (Molly) a month ago exactly actually. The shelter said she'd come in with other cats but the rest of them had been adopted out which made me sad :( But...