Thank you everyone so far for your suggestions. I feel like we are making progress slowly, I just want to make sure we're doing all the right things. We'll be fine if he's never a lap cat, we would just like to be able to live comfortably with him and him with us. I'll try the rescue remedy...
To those who have made a domestic cat out of a stray or feral one, I need your help! I know you’re out there, and I need your advice on whether this is possible in our situation, and how to best make this cat a domestic cat (even if he won’t ever be super friendly).
Here’s the situation:
Sir...