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    Leaving for a 8 day Vacation and I am extremly anxious about leaving my cats

    only here for about average 10 minutes to about an hour a few times, is that about what your doing? if not is that long enough?
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    Leaving for a 8 day Vacation and I am extremly anxious about leaving my cats

    My mom is going to come everyday and feed them and everything and even stay a little and have my brother spend time in the house a few evenings but I am so upset about leaving my cats. I am extremly close to my male who is about 10 years old and he sleeps by my side every night and loves to be...
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    My baby boy :(

    anything you can do to press charges against this neighbor who did this? People can't get away with this! People who harm animals should be locked up and tortured the rest of their lives! It makes me SICK~! I am so sorry
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    I found a lump

    My cat Coffy developed a bump on his wrist, about the size of a grape, I took him to a vet that said it was a cyst and I would put the cat through more trauma through surgery to remove it so that I should just let it go, 1 year later I noticed it was a little bigger and he was biting at it, so I...
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    The loss & guilt of losing my cat are controlling my mind

    I am just getting worse, I dreamed of my Tazzy again right before I woke up this morning, this time in my dream, I took much better care of her when she came home from getting declawed, I used the right litter, called the vet when I saw the first sign of anything going wrong, she purred when I...
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    The loss & guilt of losing my cat are controlling my mind

    how I am feeling and my husband tells me he wants me to be happy and will do anything, I just tell him honestly there is nothing that can be said to me to get rid of my guilt, he misses her too but is so much stronger then me, I promise I am not going to do anything extreme, I just think of her...
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    The loss & guilt of losing my cat are controlling my mind

    there is only one thing that would make me ok and that's seeing Tazzy again, telling her how sorry I am and holding her. Reading the replies about her waiting to see me again and about the Rainbow bridge actually make me sad because I picture her waiting for me and that kills me, I dont want her...
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    The loss & guilt of losing my cat are controlling my mind

    do I look for a doctor in the phonebook to go see or a counseling center? I need someone that has gone through the exact same thing to tell me what to do because I feel like I am getting worse. I won't go into exact detail of the lowest I have been but it's worse than I have ever been in my life...
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    The loss & guilt of losing my cat are controlling my mind

    Here is my last post that will give you the story of what happened to her http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=186567 I can go for a few days without breaking down but I think of her all the time, sometimes so much I can't do anything, everything reminds me of her and I am starting to...
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    I posted a few months ago about losing my Tazzy and

    know that she doesn't know anyone else there and misses us, I picture her wondering where we are, wondering when will she see us again, I just have thousands of thoughts constantly that are making me go insane, I cry no matter where I go and I start thinking of her, I was just at the video store...
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    I posted a few months ago about losing my Tazzy and

    I still cant get past it, I mean I am a mess, I cried all weekend and know if I going to lose it as I type this out but I have to face this and need to know how to get through it. I know it's ok to cry but how do I get through knowing it was my fault she died, Please don't tell me it wasn't...
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    Advice on Stray Male Cat

    Also I got him to come in the doorway yesterday by coaxing him with food but he kept running back out, then I shut the door and he flipped out and ran around the room like a wild man, I felt so bad, I let him right back out and he came right back to me and ate but didn't want to come in, it's...
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    Advice on Stray Male Cat

    I put my arms around him to pick him up and he got really upset with me and it took until today for him to let me pet him again so I have to keep at it, I put a cat carrier out with the food in it but he wouldn't go to it, so I am going to keep working on him, he has come a long way already so I...
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    Advice on Stray Male Cat

    he was really scared of me taking pics but I got a few good ones
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    Advice on Stray Male Cat

    I think I am going to pick him up, I can't find anyone that I know with a trap so he is actually letting me pet him a lot now, he is still very scared but I am going to just lightly pick him up and put him in the cat carrier, I just hope he doesn't attack me & then lose all the trust I have...
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    Advice on Stray Male Cat

    I wrote before thinking I had a stray female that has been around for a few months but today I realized it's a male. It has taken me awhile to build his trust but today he let me pet him and this is big news because he went from running as soon as he saw me by the window to walking up to me and...
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    I don't know how I am going to get through losing my Tazzy

    My husband and I got married right out of high school, we got an apartment and wanted a cat, my mom said down the road there was a farm giving away free kittens so we went and picked Tazzy out. She road in the car with us when we left our apartment, she would crawl up on the dash, we would go...
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    I don't know how I am going to get through losing my Tazzy

    I don't know how I can go on without her, I have children so I know I have to move forward but as low as I feel, I just don't know how I can deal with this everyday,I miss her that much
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    I don't know how I am going to get through losing my Tazzy

    I have posted about losing my cat, a little over a week ago, I feel like I am losing my mind at times. I am so lost without her. My kids and hubby and I adopted an adult female a few day ago who is a sweetheart and I love her and I am so glad we saved her but I do things on impulse when I am...
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    Siamese mixes tend to be mean?

    She is the Sweetest girl, she jumped in my lap, my husband's and then my kids when we went and looked at her so we knew right away she is coming home. whoever told me that Siamese aren't friendly, well it's the craziest, she is just a mix but doesn't have any meaness in her, my boy Coffy hissed...
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