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Take 895... It was a sunny morning... Yes, to my joy cats were calm, followed me, like lemurs, with their tails lifted vertically, but I had to go to a convenience store. When i got back, first thing I was were little feathers, drops of blood and Varda - the author...Obviously, she managed to...

Day 891 of the building of Heaven... Varda, since her living territory includes kitchen as well, took it for a rule to sit at the vacant chair opposite to mine at breakfast and demandingly put her paw on my hand, expressively and explicitly looking in my eyes - all that in a way that i cant even...

Thank you so much! I appreciate your help and support. It is only thanks to you i can have the pleasure of experiencing my cats- walking around, hugging me, laying on my breast, promising happy future, licking each other, they came down from their headquaters -again. I am able to experience joy...

Hello! Thank you for all your support and advice! As time goes, Amie and Freiya are feeling better, they've become more active and less stressed out, more confident. I am keeping them totally separated. But there's one nuance i want to ask about. The separating door is closed, but there's a...

Hello! A quick update on what's happening now. I keep them separated, but Amie or Freiya - or both - are still marking the carpets in the bedroom and living room (their present territory). In brief moments of meeting with Varda (as i open the door to move from the living room to the kitchen, for...

Thank you for your replies! Now i know how right you were, Calicos with your advices. In my case, this is how wrong actions amplify the negative experience... I did it all from the start, because the door pane screen amplified the elder resident's cat insecurity. You are right that i should not...

Hello! My misunderstanding of the subtelty of cat relationship prolonged the way for the cats to accept each other. In my haste i decided to put the screen instead of the door, the newcomer somehow broke through, the elder resident was so shocked they seized each other to my great grief, as it...

Hello and thank you people for your answers. So we live by each side of the door. But when door is not tightly shut and the newcomer cat cautiosly enters the territory of the souveregn state while nobody sees her and suddenly sees my facial expression (oh so there you are), she immediately flees...

Thank you so much for the answer! I wanna say it right away - i am absolutely mindful of my love, joy and in consent with what they do - and i express that freely. I always had surprisingly balanced, courageous, free animals -  i took them for a walk with no leads or leashes, took subway and...

Thank you for your concern and support, it means so much to me... after the next, most recent attack i feel very foolish and sad... I very much understand that human emotions always have an influence on cat behavior. Today i decided to swap their places, to be more precise i locked the new cat...

It's been three months since this problematic relationship is going on. In the beggining the newcomer cat was isolated and humble and the resident cats were calm and confident. When the newcomer cat started expanding her presence territory, the resident cats started hissing at her. The newcomer...

A follow-up to the story that is still relevant and unsolved: The resident cats have set their headquaters in the room that is claimed by the elder resident cat - she never leaves it under any circumstances. If i take her she explicitly expresses herself with the worst cat words imaginable and...