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    When to say "Goodbye"

    Hello Kingalleyone, So sorry I brought this back to you, and thank you for your commiserations. I know there are many like us. We all love our furbabies so much and when they have been a part of our lives for so long, it's like losing a beloved relative, almost like a child, especially if one...
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    When to say "Goodbye"

    Thank you both, it's helpful to know what others do in similar situations. Tori sleeps a lot, but comes to visit me at night and during the day  and cuddles for a while, she still purrs a little and is still eating, drinking, though not a lot, and uses  the litter box, which she  misses...
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    When to say "Goodbye"

    Thanks Di and Bob, I don't think she is in pain, just tired and a bit weary. Thanks for your support, J Thanks I would if I thought she was in pain but they are so constipating, Actually if she starts being in pain I will take her and have her euthanized. I don't want to prolong any agony for...
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    When to say "Goodbye"

    Thank you. I agree. She's still eating & drinking, and going to the litter box,  and although she sleeps a lot, she still likes a n occasional cuddle. I've had to do it many times, so have an idea when it's time, however each cat is different, but all so very loved.
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    When to say "Goodbye"

    Thanks so much..... So sad for you about Jose, but grief is the price we pay for love. I seem to have generations of cats and Torii was the first to come and is the last to go . She sleeps a lot eats and drinks a little , and visits me for an occasional cuddle.. not nearly so much as when she...
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    Hairless Tummy and Hind Legs

    My cat had this. You might check to see if she has a UTI. Mine has had after it was treated she improved a little. However she is now 17.5 years old, and dying, not of the hair loss though. Like you I didn't want multiple cortisone injections. My floors are laminate, so it wasn't the carpet...
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    When to say "Goodbye"

    Yes I've had 6 months of bad Karma. Yes if she's in pain I will definitely take her. It would be no comfort to me either to have a cat in pain. Thanks for your sympathy and kind thoughts. Already people are offering me cats, but I need another knee replacement and won't get another cat until...
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    When to say "Goodbye"

    My beloved Tori is dying from metastatic cancer. The X-ray couldn't tell us where the primary was because of ascites but there was a secondary in the lung. My vet said there was nothing to be done, except euthanize. However I asked her to remove the fluid from the abdomen, which she did. She is...
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