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Love is Love The End! It doesn't matter what species died if you love that person, animal, bird, then the pain of losing them is no less. Grrr, I am glad you can come here because we understand the gaping hole it leaves when your soul mate leaves you. I am so sorry for your loss but she will...

I'm so sorry but if it's any help, I would have done exactly the same, it's the kindest thing you could have done for her. She was suffering terribly and to be honest, that mass sounds like it could have been cancer. I had a dog who had a mass on his liver which turned out to be cancer and...

Mamushka came into your life for a reason, she made your life whole and you made her life whole. She gave you a reason to go on because there's no greater force than love and now it was her time to leave having done a wonderful job of giving you a reason to live. Love can't be broken and...

I'm so sorry, I will certainly send her loving thoughts and ask that she is looked after when she gets there. Her time was short but you loved each other and that can't be broken. In her short time she had the best life you could have given her, you didn't fail her, it was her time. Maybe she...

I'm so sorry, there are no words to bring comfort when it's still so raw. Cry as much as you want, let it out. When you've finished crying remember the love you shared for 20 whole years, that's a long time in a cat's life but you couldn't let him suffer the way he was at the end, your love...

I couldn't have said it better myself Di and Bob! All they said are totally true, you're grieving and it's a natural process to healing. One day you'll be able to take out the photos and look at them with all their memories without breaking down. There's no time line on grieving, I lost my...

You're doing a great job Udonboy!!! Selina is a very lucky lady :) She is probably awake at night time because that's what she probably would have done in the wild, ferals tend to sleep all day and hunt at night so it's just a case of breaking that routine. From the amazing progress you've...

Well done for perseverance! I truly think that 'playing' is your way forward. Cats can't resist it! I rescued a Feral (one that would become one of many) and for the first 3 years I didn't see her, she eat, drank and used the litter tray but those were the only signs I had that she was still...

I'm so sorry Kevin, looking after Ferals is so hard because they're not domesticated and there's no real control but your feelings for them are the same as if they were tame cats living with you. Here in the UK we can buy heat pads, they heat up when the cat sits on them, it might be an idea as...

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I can understand why you wouldn't want to medicate but perhaps while there's a settling in period it could help. The two of them are trying to sort out dominance and they might have to agree to disagree but the more familiar they become with each other the more they should settle down. They...

Oh thank you :)