By the way, MsAimee - How was your cat when you first took him out on the harness? I did buy a harness last year, but when I put him on it, he went nuts, ping ponging so hard I thought he might hurt himself. But, this is in a busy neighborhood: cars, neighbors, kids; the new place is very...
Thanks both of you! I wasn't sure if a cat patio would make things better or worse. It does seem like he likes to sit in front of a window, but this is only when he isn't going nuts trying to get out of it.
Thanks for telling me about the valerian root. I only plan on using it until I get...
Last summer I started feeding a stray cat. I had him neutered and found out he has FIV. I tried keeping him indoors, but gave up. He comes here for food and a place to sleep sometimes, that's about it. Now we're moving, and I'm not sure how to get him to transition inside - but he definitely...