OMG! Great mews! There is now a organic spray for cats to stop scratching any and everything. I saw it and wasn't sure if it would work. It did! They were ripping up carpet, peeling paint off doors and one spray and they stopped. I have 5 indoor cats. Ages 1&1/2 to 18 years. I am so happy. I...
Hey it is stressful . But what I've done have given a cat there own bedroom. He had a bed, tv and a window. Sounds like the kitty has had trauma
by another cat or a human to regress to this emotion. So maybe having her own space would help. Also give her plenty of toys and a high place to climb...
All I have to say. Get a divorce. He is never going to change. Besides stressing the cat it stresses you. #1 killer! You deserve better and so does your kitty. I was with a man for 8 years and at first I gave into some of his wishes. But it became it was never enough. It's all a form on control...
Time, love, good food, patients. Do not give up. In my life I have had 6 feral cats. They all came around except one. 5 were young and the hard headed one was several years old. She never came around. But then she surrendered to my mother. Go figure! I would put the food bowl at my feet. It...