hmmmmm ok
i can't decide if it's a good idea to take one of these cats or not.
head's saying no but hearts saying yes.
My fella was pretty adamant last night that he didn't want one, but he loves the two we've got and I'm sure he'd love to have another boy in the house, we've two female cats...
lol, well i wouldn't exactly say that they are good friends, but I do know what you mean, it's not serious scrapping, just the inevitable tussels that come with keeping any two animals together.
so you don't think adding a boy would make any serious difference to the group dynamics one way or...
I've got two female cats, the older one Miss Mittens (about 5 yrs old but she was adopted from the rspca so we don't know exactly) is fairly chilled although she can defend herself if she feels the need, the younger one, Lu-Li who is about 2 and a half now, is pretty boisterous, she's the daddy...
well i tried feeding her before bed and playing with her before bed...... absolutely no difference! guess it's something i'll just have to live with.
thanks for the tips though
ha ha that sorta makes sense, thanks for the tips. she normally has her dinner fairly early in the evening, i'll see if putting a little bit of extra food down before bed calms her in the morning.
i feel like if i give in to her it'll only make her think that crying at me gets her what she wants, i don't want to encourage her to behave like this..... have i got that wrong?!
I couldn't shut her out during the day, she scratches at the front door if she's shut out and she'd trash it.
Hi there,
Joined up cos I'm having a few issues with one of my cats, it's nothing massively serious just a bit annoying and I'd like to be able to sort it if I can. I've had a browse through the pinned topics but there doesn't seem to be anything which deals with my situation.... if there is...