although he hates me, I still love him and always fall in love with him, and have happy feelings when I stroke him, so hopefully It's not that but might be something else
He's not normally bothered when I pick him up - just sits there happily, although (understandably) he struggles after long. But he DEFINITELY NOT A LAP CAT! as soon as you put him on your lap he runs off! But I'm still holding him the way I was told, which is the way he is usually comfortable...
ok then, that's good, and anyway, a few cats ARE very slightly overweight - mine is because I baby him too much! I feed him coz he looks at me with those big, beautiful eyes, and meows and nudges me, so I just give in! (Although I shouldn't)
thank you very much rad65! I thought so, but couldnt be sure. I just had to take him away from that cruel owner as soon as I could, and I only just met him then, so I had no choice really. but do you think that his grumpiness can be cured, or no?