Recent Content by lavendercat

Thank you for your response. I know that counseling is not the answer to everything, more of a 'supplement' to help me deal with this. I've been trying every day to be happy despite my loss. It is always a bittersweet thing to dwell on.

Don't know how old the kitten is exactly, but he has definitely reached that 'bratty' stage. Today she has been very affectionate and was better at leaving the situation instead of growling. I have considered an illness may be at play, but surely there would be more signs? Either way, she seems...

Three months ago I lost my best friend due to cancer. Yes, my best friend was a cat. She was in my life for 15 years, and I miss her so much. It seems like she was sick for ages. I knew she didn't have much time left but for the past couple of years I tried my hardest to keep her alive. She...

She has access to my bedroom while I'm away but perhaps because I washed all my bedding before I left she thought I left for good. I'll try leaving some clothes on the floor for her and/or leave my bedding unwashed. The kitten is getting bigger every day, so maybe my other cat feels like she...

So I just recently started at a college where I have to stay in the dorms but get to come home over a three day weekend. There are four cats at home, and one in particular that I missed the most during my first week. I come home and she's acting very strange. She usually lets me hold her and...