Recent Content by kittyniche

Whc216, Thank you for your response and encouragement to give my female more time. You're right, your cat has more shyness. It sounds like your patience has awarded you with a wonderful friend. My female chooses when she wants to come up to me, a few times per day. She'll let me pet her a few...

ShadowsRescue,  I just looked at Composure at amazon.com. I don't like the ingredients. Non-fat milk solids aren't good for kitties digestion or blood sugar. Maltodextrin is a modified carbohydrate, and sucrose is included. Glycerin is a sugar alcohol. In addition to those blood-sugar elevating...

Chaucer,  Thank you for the encouragement. It sounds like you are doing a great job with trying to help your cats get along. Maybe it's more difficult because of the kittens, and she feels protective? My male is ready and wants to interact with my female. It's her that is dominating. How long...

StephenQ, I'm thinking of doing a re-introduction. I started late last night. My female had chased my male then started a fight. I put water and litterbox in the spare room and bribed her in with food. Then I shut her in. Within a couple of minutes, my male started scratching on the outside of...

ShadowsRescue, I am here asking for help because I would like to keep my female if at all possible. I do have to consider long-term my male's well-being and my own. My male is very emotionally sensitive. I see him being submissive to her, making room for her in the large cat bed, trying to...

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Oh, I forgot. I have a Feliway diffuser plugged in, in the living room, and I have the spray that I use, too. 

My new cat is a 2-3 year old female. My resident cat is a 5 year old male. I had a cat that died a couple of months ago, so I adopted the female 5 weeks ago. I have three concerns. 1. She still hides at least half the day. 2. She comes around me to be pet a few times a day for brief periods, but...