I'm sorry for the loss of your little kitten, Gravity. I have lost very young kittens before over the years that I tried to save and they died anyway. I was very attached to them and loved them with all of my heart. It feels like a freight train ran over me because of the pain of missing...
I don't see nothing wrong with naming a cat, Kitty. It is one of my cat's nick names. I use it more than her real name most days.
I say:
"Get down from there Kitty"
"Time to eat Kitty"
"Want a treat Kitty?"
"No, no Kitty!"
"Wanna play, Kitty?"
Or when I am looking for her I ask "Do you...
My cat Kiki LOVES her hand made wand toys that we call her "Sparkle Wands". I have to buy loads of them from the venders at the yearly cat show because she wears them out pretty quickly. She just hears the little bell jingling and comes running. Or if I say "Sparkle, Sparkle" she comes running...
Every morning around 5:00 to 6:00 AM for the past 4 years....
Kiki "Mommy wake up, pet me, pet me, pet me!"
Me "Kitty it is too early, go back to sleep"
Kiki "PET ME!" Purrs louder
Me " Kitty no!"
Kiki pawing at me "Mommy? Mommy? Mommy?"
I open my eyes "What do you want kitty? Mommy is...