Thank you all for the advice. I've been trying the vanilla & that does seem to calm them a little & allow them to be a little more curious about each other. Still trying to work out how to better use our gates with how our house is configured, but I am going to start using scent crossing ASAP...
A little wordy, but please bear with me! I began working with Djinn last spring when he was a few months old, maybe a year. It took me weeks to get close to him...he's now been in the house since fall & has been tested, dewormed & neutered. He's a champion cuddler & I can easily pick him up, pet...
