I wrote you a nice detailed post with a bunch of links above, but it seems to be pending moderator approval. Idk if it's because of the links or because I just created this account to respond to this thread lol, anyway i hope it shows up soon. Best of luck!
Hey, good luck with this, I know how hard it can be. My Ruby had a bad bout of calicivirus shortly after I adopted her when she was about 2 months old. She was my first kitten and I was terrified to think I might lose her.
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