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    Can't get over the last moments

    Thank you so much, your post left me speechless and with tears streaming down my cheeks.  You said all of the things I try to feel and believe.  It's just so hard.  I have had many pets, and they have all left their place in my heart, but there was just something about Tabby.  He seemed to have...
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    Can't get over the last moments

    Thank you, I try to remind myself of that but sometimes the dark memories just seem to creep in. :(
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    Can't get over the last moments

    Thank you, his name was Tabby.  When he found me I thought he was a female and named him Tabitha.  This is because my male cat Tigger would not let any other males in the yard.  I'll never know why he allowed Tabby in.   When I took him (thinking he was a her) to the clinic for spaying, they...
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    Can't get over the last moments

     Thank you for your kind words.
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    Can't get over the last moments

    Well,   It's been a year and a half since I lost my Tabby to CHF.  I try to remember only the good times, but after all this time I am still haunted by that horrible day and the course of events that took place.  It was such a whirlwind.  One moment he was here, the next we were at the vet and...
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    How to STOP blaming yourself?! It has been only 4 days...

    I'm so sorry you suffered so much trying to provide the best life possible for your kitty.  You went so much above and beyond in trying to help him and figure out what was wrong with him.  Unfortunately, sometimes just as with people, the Doctors can't always find the underlying cause.  Blame is...
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    Tiger the prince my best friend ? 1999 - February 17th, 2015

    I am so sorry to hear you are hurting so badly over the loss of your dear Tiger.  It's been 5 months since I lost my boy Tabby, and I feel like the hurt will never go away.  I know what you mean about other people saying you'll get another cat someday.  I've had people approach me asking me to...
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    Trouble my angel from heaven

    I'm so sorry for the pain you are experiencing from losing your dear Trouble.  I lost my dear Tabby in Oct., and I am still trying to cope with the loss.  Wearing his fur around your neck is not strange if it comforts you.  I still take Tabby's ashes and picture to bed with me at night because...
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    Do you take pictures of your cat after s/he has died?

    No matter how it ends for our fur babies, if we are the last ones with them in the end, we all feel guilt.  There's no one else around to blame, so we blame ourselves.  Whether it's because we feel we could or should have done more, or not done enough, or done the wrong thing, the list goes on...
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    Feeling down.

    I'm so sorry for your loss of your dear, sweet Zen.  I haven't been on this site in a while now.  I was on here constantly when I lost my dear Tabby in October, and could hardly bear the grief and sadness.  I came here tonight because I too, was feeling sad.  I don't think that time takes away...
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    Feral Beauties

    What a gorgeous kitty cat Fox is!
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    Feral Beauties

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    Feral Beauties

    This is my very handsome, feral boy "Tabby."  He sadly passed away in Oct. 2014.  He was the most loving creature I have ever known.  After 2 yrs. of living outdoors, he finally decided it was time to trust me enough to come inside.  He lived with me for the next 10 yrs. as an indoor/outdoor...
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    Goodbye Reesee

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I lost my kitty to a blood clot in Oct.   Similar symptoms to yours.  My vet also gave a grim diagnosis for recovery, and my cat had been battling heart disease for 2 yrs.  I had to make that same painful decision.  There's always guilt.  Please don't beat yourself...
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