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    Friend of Ferals Award Badge - Apply Here

    Thank you so much. This badge represents a journey of love to me!
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    Friend of Ferals Award Badge - Apply Here

    Hello. My story is not unique in any way. We had an apartment complex (now demolished) a block from my house and when tenants were forced to leave several left behind their cats (don't get me started!!). Within a couple of years our neighborhood was overrun with cats and kittens, and wandering...
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    My experience with feral

    That's so nice. I know you love to see them. And don't tell these 3 that they are feral/stray!!
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    My experience with feral

    Thank you!. And they give us more than we give them. They are wonderful. Who knew?? Ha!!!
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    My experience with feral

    Thank you for saying that. It is very rewarding to help these beautiful creatures.
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    My experience with feral

    Hello. My story is not unique in any way. We had an apartment complex (now demolished) a block from my house and when tenants were forced to leave several left behind their cats (don't get me started!!). Within a couple of years our neighborhood was overrun with cats and kittens, and...
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    I need help / still not going well

    I am so sorry for your loss. I know that losing a pet is losing a part of your heart, and everyone here knows how that feels. Both you and your Babymonkey were lucky to find each other and have those years together. Try to remember him with joy for the happiness he brought to you and you to...
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    I agree that if he continues to show no appetite a visit to the vet is in order. One thing for sure, cats take a long time to adjust to any change. As for feeding two cats, I feed six and some would love to eat a small amount and return frequently for more, but others would eat the food if...
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    Me again, with Sammy

    Sammy is still in one room after 3 weeks, but he eats and drinks like a champ and comes out when my daughter enters the room. She plans to allow him out of his room when he seems completely comfortable with the room and her, and seems to want to explore further. He has several beds, food...
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    Please help with big decision

    What a happy, wonderful story! I love reading this!
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    Me again, with Sammy

    :lol: So true!!!
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    With the wonderful help of everyone on this site, I have been going through the process of bringing a male outside cat indoors. The main thing I've learned is to not rush anything. Let him become the master of his new room. He needs to be comfortable and trusting in that space before he...
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    Me again, with Sammy

    Thank you so much for your guidance. This site has been a godsend. I have worked a lot with trapping feral/strays and getting them total vet care, but having a pet cat is a completely new experience. After being a 100% dog person my entire life, I cannot believe the joy I denied myself by not...
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    Me again, with Sammy

    New question about Sammy. He is adjusting slowly to his new home in Florida and definitely making progress every day. He has been with my daughter for 11 days and he is now eating and drinking regularly. I took one of my shirts to her house, put it under the desk. He sleeps on it always. I...
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    Me again, with Sammy

    Thank you. We are following the plan you outlined. Today was a good day. He and I cuddled. He is eating more and drinking more. Today I feel much better about him. He’s going to make it. Thank you!!
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