I don't mean to be an alarmist but I just found out that sneezing can be a symptom of feline herpes. My 13 year old cat has just been diagnosed with it. I had no idea. Google it. My vet said the most common reason for chronic sneezing is FHV. I thought my cat had allergies and I regret not...
Dear Torn
Trust that you are treating your beloved cat with dignity, love and compassion. I believe that we can communicate on a deep level with our pets.
I suggest you let your boyfriend know you need to focus primarily on her this weekend. I imagine your bf has a hard time seeing you hurt...