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I've had my kitten about 3 weeks now. He was a stray found on the street by a lady living a few streets away i met on Facebook. I love him to bits. he's gorgeous and can be very loving. he can also be horrible to me. I would like some advice on training his behavior please as i am starting to lose my temper with him to a point i am not comfortable with. I have contemplated giving him away if it doesn't change - but i am not a quitter and would rather help him settle.
I don't think he was on the street for long because he seems very healthy and his nails and teeth are in perfect condition. i guess he was around 8-9 weeks when i got him. i suspect he may have been the last in the litter and a home was too difficult to find. He was alone when found (perhaps the lady made up the story of finding him and responded to my call for an 'unwanted pet' thinking the stray story would encourage e to take him?)
The first day i had him he was naturally very timid and following a good feed he slept under the table for the day. The next day he was more playful.
The routine we have is:
He bothers me for and hour or two before i am due to wake up. Usually if i cover my head and show him my back he gives up.
I get up, clean out any poop from his litter tray. One or two days i have left just one poop in there - if i have been in a rush - but will only do that if i am confident there is enough space with clean litter. He litter trained within about 3 days once i discovered he liked a bit of soil on the litter - a practiced i stopped following another few days - no soil has been used for 2 weeks now.
I feed him in the morning a handful of dry biscuits and half a pouch of wet food, i also clean and refill his milk bowl. he refused to drink water.
I go to work following a little fuss.
i return and he greets me at the door. i fuss him and usually feed him right away. More dry food and the other half of the pouch.
He doesn't seem to be so into the dry food and will save it for later. It goes eventually.
i then check the litter tray and clean if need be. I scoop it daily and do a full clean roughly every 3 days.
Despite having been very good with litter training the last few days he has been very naughty. He has peed on two piles of clothes, has been pooping on the edge of the tray so it hits the floor, he pooped in a basket of nick nacks in the bathroom and just now right next to the bin bag waiting to go out - despite his litter tray being freshly cleaned this morning and currently empty.
Like i said i give hi fuss when i get home but when i sit down for my coffee and 5 min relax before cracking on with life's demands he will start attacking me. scratching and biting. I cant tell if he is trying to be playful or aggressive. Stern tones do nothing, wagging finger, nothing, pick him up and move him, he is back with vengeance, i stamp my foot sometimes and that temporarily scares him off but not for long. We go through this for at least half an hour each night. It's distressing me as i am covered in scratches. He even attacked me as i sat on the toilet the other night. I really don't know what to do and am starting to really lose it with him. I am scared of becoming aggressive myself.
Her has toys and plenty of space to roam and run.
Later in the evening when he has calmed down i fuss him and stroke him loads and he is very loving then. Any tips of getting rid of this hellish stage he puts me through each night.
He has been flee'd but not wormed (i don't see any signs he needs this and he isn't allowed out.) i hear castration might calm him down but i wanted to try and avoid this. is this true? at what age should you do that? I would rather have some training tips and help condition his behavior without such extreme intervention (don't get me wrong i would get him neutered immediately if he was an outdoors cat)
please help.
I don't think he was on the street for long because he seems very healthy and his nails and teeth are in perfect condition. i guess he was around 8-9 weeks when i got him. i suspect he may have been the last in the litter and a home was too difficult to find. He was alone when found (perhaps the lady made up the story of finding him and responded to my call for an 'unwanted pet' thinking the stray story would encourage e to take him?)
The first day i had him he was naturally very timid and following a good feed he slept under the table for the day. The next day he was more playful.
The routine we have is:
He bothers me for and hour or two before i am due to wake up. Usually if i cover my head and show him my back he gives up.
I get up, clean out any poop from his litter tray. One or two days i have left just one poop in there - if i have been in a rush - but will only do that if i am confident there is enough space with clean litter. He litter trained within about 3 days once i discovered he liked a bit of soil on the litter - a practiced i stopped following another few days - no soil has been used for 2 weeks now.
I feed him in the morning a handful of dry biscuits and half a pouch of wet food, i also clean and refill his milk bowl. he refused to drink water.
I go to work following a little fuss.
i return and he greets me at the door. i fuss him and usually feed him right away. More dry food and the other half of the pouch.
He doesn't seem to be so into the dry food and will save it for later. It goes eventually.
i then check the litter tray and clean if need be. I scoop it daily and do a full clean roughly every 3 days.
Despite having been very good with litter training the last few days he has been very naughty. He has peed on two piles of clothes, has been pooping on the edge of the tray so it hits the floor, he pooped in a basket of nick nacks in the bathroom and just now right next to the bin bag waiting to go out - despite his litter tray being freshly cleaned this morning and currently empty.
Like i said i give hi fuss when i get home but when i sit down for my coffee and 5 min relax before cracking on with life's demands he will start attacking me. scratching and biting. I cant tell if he is trying to be playful or aggressive. Stern tones do nothing, wagging finger, nothing, pick him up and move him, he is back with vengeance, i stamp my foot sometimes and that temporarily scares him off but not for long. We go through this for at least half an hour each night. It's distressing me as i am covered in scratches. He even attacked me as i sat on the toilet the other night. I really don't know what to do and am starting to really lose it with him. I am scared of becoming aggressive myself.
Her has toys and plenty of space to roam and run.
Later in the evening when he has calmed down i fuss him and stroke him loads and he is very loving then. Any tips of getting rid of this hellish stage he puts me through each night.
He has been flee'd but not wormed (i don't see any signs he needs this and he isn't allowed out.) i hear castration might calm him down but i wanted to try and avoid this. is this true? at what age should you do that? I would rather have some training tips and help condition his behavior without such extreme intervention (don't get me wrong i would get him neutered immediately if he was an outdoors cat)
please help.