What you are going through is all completely normal. When you lose someone you love, grief sets in as guilt, regret, and devastating pain. As said above, the pain never leaves you, but it does get easier in the way that you learn ways to contain it, and ways to cope. For some this can take...
He looks around 5-6 weeks old, and his weight is not bad at all, should be around 1.5 lbs. What is he eating? Can he eat canned kitten food mixed with kitten formula? He should be bottle feeding some and learning to eat off a plate. As long as he eats until he refuses, that is good. Make sure he...
Really don't know, haven't had a vacation in over 30 years. Our idea of a vacation is to get away overnight, my cats have leukemia and need their meds. So far so good on missing one day three to four times a year. They disappear and don't come out when starngers (anyone) shows up.
It IS more common than you think for them to deliver one prematurely and the rest later. They each have their own sac, so the rest should be OK. Do you know when she is supposed to deliver? Lrets pray she holds on till then.
We tend to dwell and live with the loss rather than celebrating the time we spent with them. It's so hard to lose a soulmate from our lives but it is enevitable. I can say I was just like you when I lost my Chrissy, I lost all joy in life. I really eblieved I didn't deserve to have happiness if...
i am so very sorry for the loss of such a sweet boy. He is at peace, he holds all the love that your family gave him in his heart. The bond between the two of you can never be taken from you, it is spiritual, so eternal. He lived a good long life because of all that love and care, unfortunately...
I saw that it depends what you want to give together. So I would definitely ask the vet. That being said, cats get tapeworm from ingesting fleas, so it is good the fleas will die first. Put the tapeworm pill in a tiny bit of cheese or pressed into half cooked bacon (I haev used a tiny piece of...
Get on Face Book and put a picture of Mikey on it as a lost cat. Also see if there are any radio stations that would advertise for free a lost pet. Many older people listen to that. Charley coudl have chased him too far away to find his way back. The storms may have spooked him too. Go into the...
Thank you so much, it helps to know you aren't alone in your feelings, that others are experiencing the same thing. Grief is s a road we all have to travel alone, but it helps to have others walk by your side!
Nothing can be said to lessen the pain of losing a loved one, but having friends to lean on and for support helps us to get back on our feet.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your little girl. I'm so happy for her though that she found you to care for her and love her. Very few would have given her...
She is diplaying a from of overstimulation syndrome, which i have seen in quite a few of my cats, all females. so acting like this is not unknown to me! They strike out with no warning when they get overstimulated, and if she is fearful and anxious, that may be often! If she was kicked and...
You saved her, and she, in return, gave your life so much........God has always said we will be happy in heaven, and complete, so if your loved ones make you happy you will be with them again. Every living creature that draws a breathe has a soul, "Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not...
@Kwik,I'm so glad your surgery went well, bask in the soothing vibes of your clowder!
I have to smile every time I think of the little girl I have right now when she was an outside cat. She would intimidate the huge feral males that came into eat. She's barely 7 lbs, they were at least 18lbs...
She smelled him in that blanket and marked it as her own. No mistake. There is nothing wrong with hissing and swatting. That is totally normal , especially for a female, who live to teach manners and set limits. I think everything is going great! Let them work it out, it will happen, good work!